Thursday, October 20, 2016

New Pastors & The Christmas Season

I've had conversations with several churches lately about the importance of calling a pastor. The assignment of calling a pastor is a challenging task that search teams take very seriously. In the recent past a church would get 15-40 resumes sent by pastors and ministry leaders recommending someone they believed would do a good job and would likely be a good match for the church and community. Not that praying through 40 resumes is easy and quick, but today churches get hundreds of resumes for an open position. Ministry head hunter organizations and "pastorless church" websites are found all over the internet. Search teams are flooded with resumes from every direction and have to sift through piles of paper and videos to find the gold.

For many years I have recommended men all over the country. I have the privilege of vetting guys with a good word about their character, skills, abilities, and previous ministry. It's awesome to be involved in the process and speaking well of others. I've watched guys make transition into new ministries and flourish, very few have struggled or missed an assignment that was a good match for them and their family.

I was thinking what an awesome opportunity some churches will have as they bring their new pastor on the field as we head into the Christmas holidays. There cannot be a better time to take advantage of a new pastor on the field than the holiday season. During the Christmas season we find people more open to spiritual conversations and the gospel than at any other time of the year. A good marketing plan and excited church members could take great advantage of bringing friends, coworkers, neighbors, and fellow students to church and Christmas events. What an opportunity to  connect with the new pastor and get in on all the new beginnings a congregation will experience with a new leader in the pulpit. This is the perfect season to reclaim some of the former faithful members who have drifted while there was a vacancy in the parsonage!

It crazy, at every turn and at every opportunity I constantly think about Kingdom growth and how every opportunity can be used to develop healthy growing evangelistic churches. This is how I'm wired, committed to making better and more disciples, which makes for a healthy church. I love Christmas and it's Errin's favorite time of the year. To take every advantage of our seasonal joy, the tender-heart of the community towards this sacred holiday just makes so much sense. Lets reconnect, reach and win people proclaiming the miracle of the manger this season!

Wednesday, October 19, 2016

Confidence and Endurance

When was the last time the Lord spoke to you? I mean spoke in such a way that He shook you to the core of your soul? God speaks in several ways: through His word, in our circumstances, and through others. We sense that "small still voice" or His "tap on the shoulder" in worship, our devotions, and from conversations with godly people. The good news is God is speaking to us, He is intimately involved in our lives and everything that touches us.

God has been stirring in my heart about my ministry assignment.  We have been fortunate to join God in many good works in Orlando, the church I pastor is heading in the right direction,  the family is faithfully serving Jesus, we are all healthy...God is good! I recently found myself on my face before the Lord, prostrated on the bedroom floor pouring out my heart in a Jacob wrestling with God moment, desiring to hear from Him...desiring direction for this transition. It was an extensive time of prayer like none other I've experienced. I wish I could tell you I left the prayer closet with all the answers and time frames that God was going to work...that didn't happen.
What happened in the next few hours is absolutely amazing! God brought two strangers into my life with a message of encouragement and confirmation that He is faithful and at work. He reminded me that He is preparing Errin and me for what is ahead. This message fits my understanding how God works, He always prepares the man for the ministry....this is a time of preparation! God is working His character into our lives in ways and places that need His touch for where He is sending us.

So here's how God answered...

Periodically I drive for Uber. I do it for several reasons but at this moment they are all unimportant. I picked a man up at the hospital, turns out he was a pastor in town. I didn't know him and he didn't know me. The preacher spoke direct words of encouragement about waiting on God. He said many things that connected with my time of prayer the night before. We prayed together and then he was dropped off. It was a wow moment, how could he had known what was going on in my life and how did he know how to speak to my need? God had my undivided attention. Of course the answer is he was God's messenger with a message for me.

It gets even better!! In the morning while driving I picked up a lady, she was Brazilian and heading to her place of work. She was my third or fourth rider of the morning, picked up on the far side of town. A lot of things have to connect to make sure I picked her up. She sits down and says she wants to tell me about her morning devotion. She said she didn't know why but that she needs to share what God placed on her heart.....

She said God wants us to have have great confidence in our faith in Christ and that He will greatly reward unwavering confidence in Jesus as I wait on Him. She said I have need to endure what I am going through because it is the will of God, and that I will receive what is promised. She left me with this passage of Scripture....

"Therefore do not throw away your confidence, which has a great reward.
36 For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will
of God you may receive what is promised. 37 For,
“Yet a little while,
and the coming one will come and will not delay;
38  but my righteous one shall live by faith,
and if he shrinks back,
my soul has no pleasure in him.”
39 But we are not of those who shrink back and are destroyed, but of those who have faith and preserve their souls.

As the this woman spoke the presence of Jesus filled the car, as she spoke I knew I was on holy ground hearing from God.  I wept in humility, I wept indignantly before Him who cares for me. This was one of the most moving seasons of prayer for me. Today I walk confidently that God is working in ways I cannot see or understand. I must patiently wait on Him...Always easier said than done.

 The Holy Bible: English Standard Version. (2001). Wheaton: Standard Bible Society.

Sunday, September 18, 2016

Another Great Day

I'm not exactly sure what the difference is between the concepts of "church revitalization" and "church replant". Both begin with an existing group of "called out ones" who are seeking to be obedient to the Great Commission. Both begin with a church location: large, small, new, or old. Both are a lot of work for everyone involved, require tremendous sacrifices, and have the same end results.

We are not sure when the last baptisms took place at the "old church", Eastside Baptist Church. I've heard its been as as long as three years, its been a while. Many records have been lost; the church roll vanished and is being built. So I'm not sure when the congregation experienced the last baptism. Regardless....Today we baptized three people as a brand new church, Oasis at Conway Gardens.

Samuel George is a young man being homeschooled by his parents, they have done an amazing job raising him and teaching him the ways of Christ. He was so excited to be baptized. Carol Krasinski is a senior adult, she has been growing in her faith over recent months. She expressed her desire to be baptized because she was a growing disciple. Her step of obedience meant so much to her as she understood the biblical importance of Scriptural Baptism as a believer.

Sarah was baptized too, on her 16th birthday. Obviously, she's known the Lord as her Savior, she has a strong walk with Jesus. Her ministry is blossoming as she lives her faith before her high school friends. She had five friends with her at church today. Each one at a different stage in their journey getting to know Christ as Sarah prays for them and shares the Good News. Our Sarah is growing up, she is unapologetic about her faith in Christ even as she embraces friends from all walks of life on her HS campus. She is a great missionary with a huge heart of compassion for those who need Jesus.

Tomorrow is Monday, a new day. There is much more to do to the church facilities along with much planning and preparation for the Grand Opening of Oasis at Conway Gardens on October 2nd. We host the Chris Tomlin's Worship Night in America on October 25th. Then we will provide a community Fall Festival on October 30th! I better get back to work.

Saturday, August 27, 2016

Empathy: Loving Like Jesus

Thursday morning about 1am I received a call that one of our long-standing members died in his home. He had not been out of the house to attend church since I became pastor due to his illness. However, his wife Jo was a faith member and participant at the church. She's a short sweet  white haired lady from North Carolina who is a bundle of love and grace. She carried her burden for her husband so graciously. When asked how Ron was doing, she always had an honest positive report of God's faithfulness.

I've have had the front row to a beautiful ministry over recent months. For some reason Jo was drawn to Errin (my wife), these ladies would greet each other often and chat up a storm. Jo has always been on Errin's heart, often reminding us to pray for her and Ron, wanting to go by the house and check on her and Ron. I love watching my wife care for others with such beauty. To watch Jo and Errin, two gracious southern women, walk through the deep waters of Jo's needs has been a beautiful sight.

Thursday morning's early call about Ron's passing immediately called Errin to first alert. I tried to let her sleep and get out of the house without her so she could be rested for the heavy workday ahead of her. But this was Jo and in just a few short moments Errin would be waiting for me in the car so she could hold the hand of her dear southern friend.

Maybe I'm just a proud husband who loves to watch his wife serve the Lord and love people. But I think it goes deeper than that. I see Jo, a loving gracious lady in a time of need. A woman who handles  difficulty in a way that reflects a godly woman. And I see Errin, who loves to love people. Pouring herself out to care for others. Often willing to sacrifice far more than a good nights rest to meet the needs of others.I see the heart, hands and feet of Jesus.

Jo you are in my prayers as we celebrate your 60 years of marriage to Ron and his home going.

Baby, you are an incredible helpmate, wife, and co-laborer. I love watching God use you in so many ways. You have such a special touch with people and a heart filled with compassion. I know what you're thinking......To God Be The Glory!

Friday, August 19, 2016

Love Blinds Skin Tones: One race, the human race

Had an awesome experience last spring, it was challenging and eye-opening, but still a huge blessing. I taught on a private school campus that was heavily populated with students from many walks of life. Many, if not most, were Hispanic ,others were AA, Caribbean, and more. I was usually the only Anglo in the classroom. 

I wasn't much of a teacher, I gave it my best effort in Economics, World History, and American History. What I did well, I also loved doing and miss it tremendously and that is loving the students. Finding ways to encourage them and help them find purpose and vision for their lives. I assisted them in finding ways to adjust an attitude or behavior. Helping boys understand what a godly man is like and helping girls desire not to settle with a guy just so they will be liked.They were open to having spiritual conversation about Christ, eternal significance and so much more. 

Today I was reminded again by my sweet wife that kids need leaders, not lawgivers though rules help us create healthy environments. Those kids saw way past my white skin and saw my heart filled with compassion for them. I think genuine Christ-centered love and compassion blinds us from seeing ethnicity. Be a shepherd, love those you lead.

Friday, August 5, 2016

Pokémon Go

The Pokémon phenomenon, it's unbelievable. We have turned ourselves into digital Zombies spending a ton of time on something that matters so little. I was at the UCF campus last weekend and I saw the this crowd of people wondering in every direction starring down at their phone. It was bizarre and a bit creepy, looking like mindless zombies.
It seems like almost all of us have gotten into this new craze. I confess my family has participated in the P-mon activity. We've been doing it as a family. Honestly, it's been fun. Admittedly, I'm getting left behind while on level 14 since I'm the driver for my family of digital slayers. 

Culture is interesting isn't it? I hear there is something even bigger, better and more mesmerizing just around the corner....Harry Potter!!!

Friday, July 22, 2016

Flexibility is the Key to Christian Maturity

Had to be away for a few days this week. Returned home late last night with the entire family to find the house at 90 degrees. The a/c unit went out and the house was a sauna! So what do we do? Just roll with the circumstances life provides. 

ERRIN and I just finished a conversation how nice it will be to be home and in our bed. The kids were ready as well. As we made our 11:30pm arrival at the house we opened the door to the new Hessinger Sauna. So how does my wife handle the situation? She tells the kids to pull out dirty laundry from the luggage, she handles our bags, and grabs some drinks for the kids all while on the phone to set up a reservation for a hotel. Unfortunately, I could get the a/c unit fixed.

The family responded just as I would hope. Even after a very long and tiring day on the road. We demonstrate who we are during surprisingly difficult situations. Last night Team Hessinger knocked it out of the park!!!